Here’s Why She Calls You “Daddy” In Bed, According To A Sex Therapist

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Sigmund Freud started the theory that says everyone has a natural inclination to have sexual relations with their parent of the opposite sex. So I guess people want to correlate that notion with girls calling their partners “daddy” in the sack. Some daddy issue type shit, I guess. Which is weird. But fuck doctor Vanessa Marin says that’s not why girls use it, which is nice to hear.

From Broadly:

“I’ve heard from a fair amount of men who were turned off by it, and were worried that it was an indicator of ‘daddy issues,'” says sex therapist Vanessa Marin. “Yes, ‘daddy’ can mean ‘father,’ but we also use the word to indicate when someone is the boss, in charge, a protector, or doing a good job. That’s usually the meaning women are going for in the bedroom. It’s a bit of a 70s porn cliche. I’ve never run across a woman who called her partner ‘daddy’ because she genuinely liked fantasizing that he was her father.”

It is also believed that there is a connection between a girl using “daddy” in bed to the sub/dom thing, as in she enjoys submitting to a male authority figure and prefers the more affectionate term of “daddy” to “sir.” It’s more casual or something.

Have you ever been called “daddy” in the sack? Did you like it or did it sound weird/uncomfortable to you? What was your reaction? Are you even good enough at sex to have ever been called “daddy”? I need answers.

Why hasn’t “mommy” caught on yet? Or actually, I guess the Latin version has: “mamí.”

[via Broadly]

  1. The User Formerly Known as Frabst

    When a Boy Scout calls you “daddy” while executing a box knot around your throat does that make you harder or soft?

    8 years ago at 10:18 am
  2. JohnnyFratkins

    Wish I can help – I’ve always preferred to use a little duct tape around my slam’s mouth so I can concentrate on the task at hand

    8 years ago at 10:23 am
  3. Stu Mac

    Always thought getting called daddy was stupid until my crazy ex said it to me. Now it gets me going more than Dorn at a daycare.

    8 years ago at 10:34 am
  4. Hoosier Fucking Daddy

    i was watching this porn scene where this dude bones his step mom (Jewels Jade) and she made him say “step mommy”… it just doesn’t work the same

    8 years ago at 2:02 pm
  5. Medic2090

    I have been by an ex, but she really did wanna fuck her dad… hence the ex.

    8 years ago at 2:56 pm
  6. RJ Berger

    Nothing quite like the moment you find out the cute, quiet, and smart G-Phi is actually a freak. You know, when she’s riding you like a pogo stick and moaning “Yes daddy! Give it to me harder!”

    8 years ago at 3:23 pm